Sex, Gender, Politics, and everything in between
Lawrence Stone, The Family, Sex and Marriage in England 1500-1800
I’ve been researching the gender roles prevalent at the time of Milton and Aphra Behn (my dissertation topic) and this quote came up. I think it’s really fantastic.
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On claiming to be a stupid man who doesn’t know anything « Zero at the Bone
Exactly this. This is why I despise it when men refuse to have a conversation with me about these issues and instead play dumb.
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Ahhhhhhh!!!! Yes!!!
-David Combs (Spoonboy)
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[Image: A white banner at a protest that says, “Feminism: Back due to popular demand.”]
Pointing out that men are privileged in no way denies that bad things happen to men. Being privileged does not mean men are given everything in life for free; being privileged does not mean that men do not work hard, do not suffer. In many cases – from a boy being bullied in school, to a soldier dying in war – the sexist society that maintains male privilege also does great harm to boys and men.
In the end, however, it is men and not women who make the most money; men and not women who dominate the government and the corporate boards; men and not women who dominate virtually all of the most powerful positions of society. And it is women and not men who suffer the most from intimate violence and rape; who are the most likely to be poor; who are, on the whole, given the short end of patriarchy’s stick.
[Image: The image shows a blonde, white, tattooed woman posing nude in a sexual manner. Text over this image reads: “When a woman chooses to voluntarily display herself as being a sexual object, that’s her choosing to be displayed sexually. That isn’t patriarchal sexual objectification. It’s a personal decision. Don’t slut shame, right?”]
So uh, this makes no sense. And here’s why: The word “choose” invalidates the word “object” because objects don’t choose. That’s kind of the point. Choice brings agency. So, if an individual woman makes the choice to be sexual, she is not being objectified.
Now, I know this was offered as a means to disprove the feminist notion that many ads, pornographic outlets, etc. objectify women. Well, here’s the thing. Men as a class have most of the power when it comes to producing these outlets - be they media, advertisements, pornography, what have you. Therefore, even if an individual woman is choosing to partake in a process that portrays her as being solely sexual, the choice for that to be the defining factor of women in general is no longer present, and thus the agency of women as a class is voided. Thus, sexual objectification. That’s not to say individual women shouldn’t choose to do this, sure, go ahead. But to deny that because individual women are choosing to be portrayed as solely sexual there is no cultural or social problem when it comes to who constructs the dominant narrative and the complete oversaturation of the market with the idea of women as static, narrowly defined objects in accordance with male interest is ridiculous. Participation in the system is not evidence of its non-existence.
Anyway, the feminist solution to the objectification problem (as I know it) is to bring diversity not only to the types of people portrayed in these ways, but also to the types of people who own the means of controlling these outlets. If everyone had equal access to and equal participation in the process of defining and creating social narratives, objectification would no longer be an issue.
And, hopefully, neither would reactionary bullshit tumblrs.
PS - Criticizing the culture for perpetuating the dominance of narratives and norms created by and for men isn’t slut-shaming. I also think it’s incredibly ironic that a blog which ardently defends slut-shaming is not using that idea to silence feminists while simultaneously not grasping the concept of objectification. Your knuckles are getting white you’re clutching straws so tightly.
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I am so sick and tired of people trying to justify their slut shaming
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Yep. Still funny when you see someone you know being reblogged on your dash a handful of times.
This is a pretty old picture. She’s still smashin’.
I wish this kind of protest happenend more often where I live…