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The idea that sex is something a woman gives a man, and she loses something when she does that, which again for me is nonsense. I want us to raise girls differently where boys and girls start to see sexuality as something that they own, rather than something that a boy takes from a girl.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (NPR)
Reblogged from face the strange
If men’s kindnesses toward women were really only kindnesses, a man would be pleased if another man or woman offered these kindnesses to him. He would be pleased if another man or woman lit his cigarette or pulled out his chair for him. He would be pleased to derive his income, prestige, power and even his identity from his partner. He would take pride in another man’s or woman’s offer to walk him to his car at night. But in fact, “one of the very nasty things that can happen to a man is his being treated or seen as a woman, or womanlike.
— Dee L.R. Graham (1995), Loving to Survive (via blue-voids)
Reblogged from sweet/sad
If you’re a woman and you don’t wear enough make-up, there’s about an 85% chance that the first person you see when you leave the house will ask if you’re tired or sick…
Conversely, if some dude’s inbuilt conceal-o-meter scans your eyeliner as a millimetre thicker than the Department of Warpaint’s cat eye regulations, you’re likely to be charged with five counts of Offences Against Natural Beauty…
Part of this phenomenon is that a lot of people, and almost all men, don’t understand how make-up works. Make-up was, and still is to a large extent, one of those private self-maintenance tasks ladies perform out of male view, because putting it on openly fucks with the illusion it’s supposed to create. Traditional make-up - and especially ‘no make-up make-up’ - is supposed to make your face look ‘naturally beautiful’…
Sponging on the foundation where dudes can see messes with men’s suspension of disbelief and can even cause anger, confusion or disgust. You tricked me!, he thinks. I thought you were a natural beauty! Now I see [it was] an illusion… “If I know she wears make-up,” muses the dude, “maybe she burps and farts as well. That’s not hot at all, and women are supposed to be hot…”
Wearing ‘too much’ make-up also renders the make-up itself visible, rather than contributing to the impression of a woman’s inbuilt, effortless fuckability. It’s often connected to unbecoming displays of overt sexuality: … ‘that heavy eye shadow makes you look like a whore’…
This does open up the enticing possibility of using make-up in rebellious ways, though - playing with colour and glitter or doing a hot pink lip can make you look fantastic and repel men who expect more subtlety in make-up practice. Or you could take a more direct approach, like writing IT’S NOT FOR YOU across your cheek in green shimmer eyeliner. You go girl.
— Eleanor Robertson, "All Made Up" (via crystalcabinet)
Reblogged from Victor Alejandro
La Fête du SlipGender & Sexualities Festival7-9 March 2014Lausanne, Switzerland

La Fête du Slip is a multidisciplinary festival positively celebrating all the diversity of bodies, genders, and sexualities. Over a weekend in March, La Fête du Slip presents films, concerts, parties, exhibitions, conferences, workshops, readings, and even culinary events! This year we explore themes such as BDSM, sex work or trans* identities.
This festival is for all intents and purposes the incarnation of this blog (http://anarchofeminist.tumblr.com) in an event. The author of this blog is the co-director of the festival. As we do not want to sell the event to corporate sponsors, nor do we want to have prices that prevent people from attending, are last hope for financing is in our audience and our fans all over the world. That’s why we launched a crowdfunding campaign:
http://wemakeit.ch/projects/la-fete-du-slip-edition-2014?locale=en
This weekend, there is a national vote in Switzerland that calls into question the foundations of reproductive rights that have been established for decades. Another vote on the same day wants to limit immigration and make the already inhumane policies even worse. With such a revival of conservative ideas pushing back against the recent progress in women’s rights, LGBT rights, and anti-racism, it’s crucially important to support sex-positive culture in Switzerland. We are the only festival to present such a diverse and rich intersectionnally feminist program in this part of the country. 
Thank you for your support. And feel free to come to Switzerland and participate! It’s gonna be awesome!

La Fête du Slip
Gender & Sexualities Festival
7-9 March 2014
Lausanne, Switzerland

La Fête du Slip is a multidisciplinary festival positively celebrating all the diversity of bodies, genders, and sexualities. Over a weekend in March, La Fête du Slip presents films, concerts, parties, exhibitions, conferences, workshops, readings, and even culinary events! This year we explore themes such as BDSM, sex work or trans* identities.

This festival is for all intents and purposes the incarnation of this blog (http://anarchofeminist.tumblr.com) in an event. The author of this blog is the co-director of the festival. As we do not want to sell the event to corporate sponsors, nor do we want to have prices that prevent people from attending, are last hope for financing is in our audience and our fans all over the world. That’s why we launched a crowdfunding campaign:

http://wemakeit.ch/projects/la-fete-du-slip-edition-2014?locale=en

This weekend, there is a national vote in Switzerland that calls into question the foundations of reproductive rights that have been established for decades. Another vote on the same day wants to limit immigration and make the already inhumane policies even worse. With such a revival of conservative ideas pushing back against the recent progress in women’s rights, LGBT rights, and anti-racism, it’s crucially important to support sex-positive culture in Switzerland. We are the only festival to present such a diverse and rich intersectionnally feminist program in this part of the country. 

Thank you for your support. And feel free to come to Switzerland and participate! It’s gonna be awesome!

Whenever I hear the "Women are paid $.78 for the man’s $1" I flip it around.

Men make $1.22 for every woman’s $1.

It interests me that even the most common simple measure of gender inequality is firmly based on male-as-normative …

bisexual activist and queer theory blogger Patrick RichardsFink (via fliponymous)

this is an interesting point, although mathematically inaccurate: assuming the women:men, 0.78:1 ratio is correct, men make $1.28 for every woman’s $1

(via haveyouevercriedwolf)

White people are still the ~standard so that’s not so revolutionary.

(via dykeprivilege)

A white man makes $1.34 for every dollar that a black man makes

A white man makes $1.52 for every dollar that a latino man makes

A white man makes $1.24 for every dollar that a white woman makes

A white man makes $1.44 for every dollar that a black woman makes

A white man makes $1.67 for every dollar that a latina woman makes

That’s some bullshit right there.

(via little-bulldozer)

If you take away anything from this website, please let it be what I bolded ^

(via buxombibliophile)

Reblogged from Vzkříšení
I swear to god I will lose my mind if I hear the “sex sells” fallacy one more time. Sex does not sell. If sex sold, we would see penises where we see boobs. Naked men would be on everything that naked women are on. Sex isn’t what they’re selling you. They’re selling you an impossible, pornographically fueled misogynistic idea of the perfect woman.

(via menstruate)

FUCKING THANK YOU

(via fozmeadows)

The face of popular, “sex-positive” feminism seems to have changed very little. It still seems to be a movement geared towards middle-class, mostly white, liberal, cis-women for whom liberation may indeed be a simple matter of achieving greater sexual satisfaction, ending the culture of slut-shaming, and re-appropriating femme aesthetics… If we wish to construct a feminism that is truly “sex positive,” it must address the myriad forms of oppression that violate women’s lives and bodies on a global scale. “Freedom in society can be measured by distribution of orgasms,” reads another slogan of Wallace’s Cliteracy project — a statement that seems almost painfully ludicrous when we consider the millions of women worldwide whose freedoms, sexual and otherwise, are devastated on a daily basis by state violence, environmental degradation, poverty, racism, and the wide variety of other hardships women must tackle in the contemporary world.
So many men conflate the performance of femininity with womanhood. They are not attracted to women, they are attracted to drag acts.
Reblogged from Feminist
The politicization of sex should not dissolve its freedom, its joy, its pleasure. If erotica is political, it’s also because it is a tremendous catalyst of goodness.
— Damien Bright | cofounder of L’Imparfaite magazine
One of the biggest misconceptions out there about sexual harassment is that it’s mostly intended as a kind of flirting, an attempt by the harasser to get positive attention and maybe even consensual sex. If you believe that, you’re much more likely to be hoodwinked by pro-harassment arguments about how innocent men are getting castigated, thrown out of conferences and bars, blocked on Twitter, etc. because they are either socially inept (Asperger’s is often trotted out as an excuse) or because “hypersensitive” bitches are freaking out because they love to “play the victim”. The reality is that harassment is usually about, well, harassing someone. It’s often disguised as flirting, but only so the harasser can (oh irony) play the part of the victimized innocent when his target pushes back. Disguising it as flirting also helps draw out the harassment, because the target often doesn’t want to be painted as “hypersensitive” and so she can be coerced with that into playing along and pretending she’s being flirted with when she and the harasser both know that he’s pushing her boundaries to get the pleasure of making her uncomfortable. Sometimes harassment is its own reward for harassers. Sometimes the harasser feels that he wouldn’t be able to have consensual flirting, much less sex, with the target anyway, so he’s pre-emptively punishing her for this hypothetical rejection. Sometimes, sadly, the harasser is a rapist and he’s trying to see if he can bully the victim with his “flirting” into being alone with him so he can rape her. But the point of harassment is not to get consensual interactions with women, and that myth needs to die already.
Reblogged from CATANARCHY
Feminism that’s based in a link between gender and genitals doesn’t just exclude people who’s bodies don’t fit – it’s a fundamentally flawed analysis that perpetuates an essentialist idea that feminism partially exists to combat. Feminism that centers a trans feminist take on gender, that recognizes that woman ≠ vagina, offers a more accurate gender analysis in general that benefits everyone.
Reblogged from Rabble
obliviateme:

pro choice, pro feminism, pro cats: yes homo.

obliviateme:

pro choice, pro feminism, pro cats: yes homo.