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Tahrir Square, January 25th 2012

Tahrir Square, January 25th 2012

A recent Boise State University study of 484 heterosexual women showed that “50% of the women had fantasies about other women that involved some kind of sexual experience”. Does this mean they’re bisexual? Lesbian? Bicurious? Who knows and, to a degree, who cares? We don’t need to label every thought that comes into our minds, unless doing so helps us in some way. I’d imagine that there are plenty of heterosexual men who’ve entertained a homoerotic fantasy at some point, but are reluctant to admit that for fear that doing so would “make” them gay. The same goes for sadomasochism and dominance and submission. Plenty of people get off to BDSM scenarios they wouldn’t necessarily want to try, yet too many are ashamed of these fantasies and don’t even fully admit them for fear of being seen as somehow deviant, when the fact is that eroticising power, helplessness and pain are extremely common.

Attraction and action are two distinct things. Sometimes they are one and the same, and visualising yourself in a given sexual situation will lead to wanting to pursue it, but not always. We need to put a higher value on the act of fantasising and recognise that it can help revive a relationship or be a tool in figuring out what arouses us. Maybe you fantasise about being with someone other than your longterm partner, or watching them with someone, or having sex in an exotic location, or being watched, or something that couldn’t ever happen in real life. Allowing yourself the freedom to simply explore what turns you on, sans judgment, is important.
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real-woman-are-rubenesque:

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tranqualizer:

[photo: photo of a group of demonstrators who are holding a banner that reads, “how many transgenders have to die before you get involved”]

tranqualizer:

[photo: photo of a group of demonstrators who are holding a banner that reads, “how many transgenders have to die before you get involved”]

People don’t necessarily know what they want. That’s okay. Sometimes you don’t know! Even about things as fundamental as sexual orientation, it’s okay to identify as questioning. I think a lot of people feel pressure to be like “I’m a pansexual monogamous dom with a foot fetish!” when the actual answer is “I dunno. I think I might like feet.” You always have a right to be uncertain, to try things, to do something once and decide you hate it and never do it again, to go through phases, to change your mind.
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It’s highly flawed to talk about the impact of “pornography” on young people as if it were a monolithic entity. Of course there is some porn which contributes to the general objectification of women in visual media. Some porn is misogynistic, tasteless and dehumanising. But to tar all sexually explicit content with the same brush shows a woeful ignorance of what’s out there. A lot of porn is pro-woman; even more is pro-human, quite simply a celebration of real human sexual expression without any strong bias either way.
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Patriarchy for it’s effective exercise depends not so much on raw power or legal authority, as on a recognition by all concerned of it’s legitimacy, hallowed by ancient tradition, moral theology and political theory. It survives so long as it is not questioned and challenged.

Lawrence Stone, The Family, Sex and Marriage in England 1500-1800

I’ve been researching the gender roles prevalent at the time of Milton and Aphra Behn (my dissertation topic) and this quote came up. I think it’s really fantastic.

(via feminismitmakessense)

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alexbreiding:

anarchofeminist:

This doesn’t apply to all workers in the world, not by a long shot, as most do not have a choice at all, and most have much much worse working conditions as these. But to all those middle-to-working class people in the West, yes let’s all wake up to the absurdity of this system.

I like anarchofem’s commentary, but I want to dig a little further. Although the anti-industrial capitalism sentiment hits my sweet spot, the argument attempts to legitimate itself with a hint of ” science.” In reality, our genetic code has yet to tell us any truths  about better labor practices, the definition of humanity, or to what extent we can compare ourselves to machines. All too often, liberal anti-capitalists (I know, its kind of an oxymoron) use ” science,” particularly popular fields such as genetics, to bolster their argument on socio-political ethics. The problem is that building an argument on natural laws is at its core an individualist liberal route based on the same knowledge often used to make pro-capitalist arguments. Instead, we should critique the legitimacy of arguments that utilize natural laws and vague scientific facts.

I couldn’t agree more. You’re absolutely right, this kind of “scientific fact=truth” argument is precisely the kind that would legitimize gender binarism, or, a hundred years ago, racism. I also disagree with the genetic argument. Epigenetics is an interesting area of science that seems to imply that genetic determination might be not that simple at all. However, it is difficult to dispute the fact that most working conditions under capitalism are harmful to health in general, and most definitely to mental health, not to mention alienation. This isn’t so much a “scientific” fact, but rather to be precise an empirical statistical observation. Thank you alexbreiding for bringing this to my attention! 

alexbreiding:

anarchofeminist:

This doesn’t apply to all workers in the world, not by a long shot, as most do not have a choice at all, and most have much much worse working conditions as these. But to all those middle-to-working class people in the West, yes let’s all wake up to the absurdity of this system.

I like anarchofem’s commentary, but I want to dig a little further. Although the anti-industrial capitalism sentiment hits my sweet spot, the argument attempts to legitimate itself with a hint of ” science.” In reality, our genetic code has yet to tell us any truths about better labor practices, the definition of humanity, or to what extent we can compare ourselves to machines. All too often, liberal anti-capitalists (I know, its kind of an oxymoron) use ” science,” particularly popular fields such as genetics, to bolster their argument on socio-political ethics. The problem is that building an argument on natural laws is at its core an individualist liberal route based on the same knowledge often used to make pro-capitalist arguments. Instead, we should critique the legitimacy of arguments that utilize natural laws and vague scientific facts.

I couldn’t agree more. You’re absolutely right, this kind of “scientific fact=truth” argument is precisely the kind that would legitimize gender binarism, or, a hundred years ago, racism. I also disagree with the genetic argument. Epigenetics is an interesting area of science that seems to imply that genetic determination might be not that simple at all. However, it is difficult to dispute the fact that most working conditions under capitalism are harmful to health in general, and most definitely to mental health, not to mention alienation. This isn’t so much a “scientific” fact, but rather to be precise an empirical statistical observation. Thank you alexbreiding for bringing this to my attention! 

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This doesn’t apply to all workers in the world, not by a long shot, as most do not have a choice at all, and most have much much worse working conditions as these. But to all those middle-to-working class people in the West, yes let’s all wake up to the absurdity of this system.

This doesn’t apply to all workers in the world, not by a long shot, as most do not have a choice at all, and most have much much worse working conditions as these. But to all those middle-to-working class people in the West, yes let’s all wake up to the absurdity of this system.

dandytrans:

So, this is a t-shirt I made a few years ago for myself and co-workers for TDOR. I still have the screen and am thinking of printing some more and putting them up on Etsy. I want to do some with the placement as is on the back and then maybe some with the words wrapping around the side (not sure). Anyway, I wanted to see if there would be interest in these before I order some blank t-shirts. I am trying to find ways of putting my craftiness to use in raising money for top surgery. So, what do you think?